Saturday, January 25, 2014

My Grandfather, My Uncle, and F.Scott Fitzgerald


By Sam Crump, Sr.

The year was 1972.  Richard Nixon was President and Watergate had not yet become the global scandal measuring stick.  As a seven year old boy growing up in Newport Beach, California, it was a time of corduroy hand-me-down pants, vans shoes and independence on a bike.

That was the year my parents took me and my four older siblings, two of each, on a family vacation to upstate New York.  This was a big deal for many reasons.  First because flying a family of six across the country in the early seventies was a big deal; hell, it still is.  Second, because my family didn’t take big trips.   My father was an Episcopal minister and ours was a camping family.  We didn’t take airplanes and we didn’t stay in hotels. 

The reason for the trip was my grandparent’s fiftieth wedding anniversary.  These were my father’s parents, Benjamin & Frances Crump, two of the sweetest people you’d ever want to know.  But they didn’t have much money either, so I suspect it was my grandmother on my mother’s side – Anne Richardson Harris, or “Granny” as she was known – who helped pay for us to attend the big family reunion.  My grandfather Edward Harris II, died in the late fifties before I was born, but he is important to this story so it seems appropriate to introduce him now.

I don’t remember anything about preparations for the trip, but I do remember the day of departure at Los Angeles International Airport.  My mother decided to dress me and my brothers all alike, which was unusual, but probably seemed like a festive thing to do.  And it was probably her last chance because right after this trip my brothers got caught up in the whole greasy-long-hair-dress-like-you-don’t-care of the seventies.
So there’s a great picture of these three young men of 7, 12 and 14, standing at LAX in red, white & blue star spangled collared shirts, dark blue polyester pants and white Pat Boone shoes with a buckle.  There we are, squinting in the early Southern California sun, a little slice of Americana.  Viet Nam was about to end; G. Gordon Liddy had probably broken into the Democratic National Headquarters the night before; and the Crump family of Newport Beach was headed back to their roots in upstate New York.

Now I know that I actually remember the event of flying out of LAX on that morning as opposed to simply remembering pictures of it as adults often do regarding childhood events.  I know I remember because I specifically recall that we flew on a Boeing 747.  This was a big deal because the massive new passenger jet had only been introduced in 1970, and also because our family somehow got bumped up to first class.  At least that’s where I think we were, because I will never forget how my seat at the front of the plane was against the bulkhead and I actually faced the back of the plane (just as Southwest did years later).  I also remember climbing the mini-spiral staircase to the upstairs hump in the 747 where there was a lounge with bench seats and all sorts of space they would never waste now, and where I imagine I feasted on peanuts and Coca Cola for five hours.

If you’ve never been to the Finger Lakes region of upstate New York, I highly recommend it.  It is beautiful country that reminds many of Italy.  In fact, the area where my grandfather Harris built his cottage is called Longs Point on Canandaigua Lake and the nearby town is Naples.  The long and beautiful lake is surrounded by lush green hills that slope steeply down to the water. 

At one time Longs Point consisted only of quaint and rustic summer cottages.  Now, most of those have been replaced by much larger year round homes.  My grandfather’s cottage with a stone chimney fireplace is one of the last.  The cottages were built by the upper class folks from Rochester in the early 1900’s.  During the summers they would go there to recreate.  I enjoyed hearing my mother explain which family belonged to which house along the shore.  That one on the point is the Briggs’ home.  We call that one over there Holly Hawks.  Your great Uncle Larry lives in that one.  The entire place had a sense of old money and elegance.  There were boat houses and tennis courts.  I recall paper trash would be burned and I can still remember enjoying the smell.

I heard the stories of summers spent at the Lake.  Think of Searsucker suits and white buck shoes.  Think Great Gatsby.    In fact, think F. Scott Fitzgerald before Great Gatsby and that is where my ancestry crosses paths with the great American author.  While the setting for Fitzgerald’s Nick Carraway was Long Island and New York City in 1922, my family crossroads was just a few years before that at Princeton University just prior to World War I.

Apparently many of the well-to-do young men of Rochester, New York in the early Twentieth Century attended Princeton University.  Not sure why that is.  But my grandfather Harris was one of them.  And this is where a great coincidence occurred.  Upon arriving at Princeton, grandfather Harris became friends with a classmate named Lowell Turrentine, who happens to be my great Uncle—on my father’s side.  As if it was not enough happenstance that my maternal grandfather and paternal great uncle would be friends in Princeton’s Class of 1917, but would you believe who they counted among their fellow classmates?  You guessed it:  F. Scott Fitzgerald.

I had the good fortune of becoming close to my Uncle Lowell when I was in my teens.  By that time he was a retired professor of law at Stanford University, where he taught for nearly 30 years.  In 1979 he invited me to attend his 62nd class reunion at Princeton.  What a treat that was.  I remember making my travel plans myself, which might strike some as unusual for a 14 year old boy, but my parents raised me to be resourceful.  I was to fly on World Airways from Oakland to Newark.  Then somehow I was to catch the train from Newark to Princeton where I would meet Uncle Lowell.  There was a threatened strike with World Airways, which I think interfered with my flight, but ultimately I did arrive in Newark late at night.  I remember hustlers trying to get me to hire their cab for a ride to Princeton, which didn’t sound like a good idea.  So I caught a shuttle to the train station and caught a train to Princeton.  All the while I was reading J.D. Salinger’s “A Catcher in the Rye” about a teenage boy’s coming of age.

I remember arriving in Princeton around midnight.  I took a cab to the lodging facility on campus where I was supposed to stay.  But I ended up at the wrong place and a college girl drove me in a station wagon to the right place.  These were college kids who had jobs for the summer helping with reunions and other activities and I remember thinking this girl was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen.  Anyway, I ultimately got to the right place and some other college kids looked up “Lowell Turrentine” on their guest list and then led me to his room.  We agreed that it was probably a good idea for me to let him know I had arrived before going to my room.  We walked down a long hallway and knocked on his door.  I’ll never forget the sight of this 84 year old man answering the door in his night shirt and I don’t think I’m making it up when I recall that he was wearing a night cap – a real life Ebenezer Scrooge!

Over the next several days Uncle Lowell took me on long walks around Princeton—I remember feeling tired and I think only now do I really appreciate the fact that he 84 and I was 14!  He pointed out the corner room on the second floor of one of the beautiful stone buildings:  “That was my dormitory in my Senior year,” he said.  He took me to the boathouse where he says my grandfather Harris was captain of the rowing team, but that he himself had asthma so wasn’t much of an athlete.  He showed me the supper club where he belonged and where he could get his meals and socialize in between studies.  By today’s standards these clubs look like stately mansions, but in those days they were simply supper clubs.

Then my Uncle Lowell took me to the University’s theater and told me about the Triangle Club.  I learned that the Triangle Club is the nation’s oldest college theater group.  It was formed in 1891 and F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote plays for the troupe and is one of its most famous members.

I remember one of the highlights of the Princeton reunion was the chance to walk with the Class of 1917 in the P-rade.  This was the annual reunion march of all the attending classes.  There was a large black banner with the orange letters spelling “Class of 1917” on it.  I remember many sweet old gentlemen who were classmates with my Uncle Lowell and grandfather Harris telling me stories about the old days.  One man in his forties was there in honor of his father who had passed away, and I remember he gave me his black baseball cap with the large orange “P” on it.

Perhaps most striking was learning that the Class of 1917 never got to attend their graduation ceremony.   For most of their time at Princeton the young men were reading about the deadly war in Europe that had already claimed millions of lives.  The tensions between the United States and Germany had reached a boiling point as President Woodrow Wilson, himself a former President of Princeton, tried to keep the U.S. out of the war.  But on April 6, 1917, the U.S. declared war on Germany and the young men of Princeton would have to receive their diplomas by mail because their nation needed them to fight in Europe.

Uncle Lowell became a bombardier, probably in the back of an Airco DH.4, which was a wooden bi-plane used by the U.S. in World War I.  He later graduated from Harvard Law School in 1922, assisted in the Teapot Dome scandal in 1925, and then settled in at Stanford University Law School from 1931 until his death on January 18, 1992.  He never had any children, but he certainly inspired me and he was one of the reasons I attended law school.
My grandfather Edward Harris not only served in the Army cavalry during World War I, but he became a career officer and later led troops as a Colonel during the Battle of the Bulge in 1945 during World War II.   After the war he retired back in Rochester where he became a bank President and died of a heart attack in 1958.

As for F. Scott Fitzgerald, it was reported in the 1917 edition of Princeton’s yearbook, the Nassau Herald, it states, “Fitzgerald was forced to leave college in December 1915 because of illness.  He will pursue graduate work in English at Harvard, then he will engage in newspaper work.”  He actually did enlist in the Army, but the War ended shortly after he arrived.  He continued his writing, of course, as he spent time in Paris in the twenties palling around with Ernest Hemingway and others.  In 1925 the Great Gatsby was published.   While it never achieved critical acclaim during his lifetime, it is now the emblem of an era.  It was an era of an emerging United States, struggling to define itself.  The war to end all wars had been fought and won.  Prohibition was breeding a new industry of bootleggers and The Mob.  And soon an economic depression would descend upon all of them.


But for the moment, three friends named Edward, Lowell and F. Scott were enjoying the good life at Princeton.  And a young boy in 1972 would sleep in their cottages, swim in their lakes and hear the stories about them and about life in America six decades earlier.

Saturday, January 11, 2014

New Year's Resolution: Be Less Fat - ish

Has it been four years already?! It was late 2009. The owner of a local gym called Sweat was at the same fancy wedding I was. His name is Josh. I knew him because my law partner handled his legal matters. Now Josh comes up to me and says, "When are we going to get Sam Crump in shape?"

You need to understand that Josh looks like one of these Greek god types. You'd swear he buys his shirts extra small so they fit so tight on him. But no, he's actually that buffed. He used to play football for South Carolina. So Josh's question to me made me rather self conscious. I felt like I had a sign stuck to my back that said "FAT". He had asked me to enroll in his kick-ass fitness program before. Everyone was doing it. It was like a cult. And I tend to avoid cults. But for some reason this time I said yes.

The next week he was in my office. "Okay, it's time to get Sam Crump signed up." Why did he always refer to me in the third person? I'm sitting right here. I soon learned that's a Joshism. The following Monday I reported to the gym on a cold, dark November morning in North Phoenix. As I approached the brightly lit storefront in a strip mall I could hear the pounding music, as if a group of gangbangers were sitting in their car nearby. I opened the door and felt the hot, sweaty air billow out into my face. And that pounding rap music blaring. I felt very out of place as I looked around at the young twenty somethings all running and squatting and jumping.

I stood there for an uncomfortable sixty seconds, unsure what to do, when sure enough he approached. "What's Sam Crump doing just standing there?!," he yelled. With that he threw me on a treadmill and pumped it up to level 6. Then he just walked away. My first thought was - this it too fast. My second thought was - how long is he going to leave me here?

Now let me add a little introspection. I've never been an athlete. I used to play some tennis and golf and enjoyed running here and there. Not an athlete, but not a couch potato either. And I've never aspired to be a Greek god. A Josh. But after I turned forty, a decade ago, I noticed how my metabolism slowed down. I could no longer eat and drink anything I wanted and not suffer the consequences. So I liked the idea of getting into a fitness regimen and avoiding becoming a fat blob.

Okay, back to the gym. After that initial workout in which Josh had me going through drills with a group of about ten other victims, I was lying in bed that night in complete pain. Every muscle in my body hurt. And this was just day one of what would be a three month program, going to the gym four days per week. Oh, and then there's the diet: one meal a day and two of Josh's proprietary (of course) shakes per day. But I did it. And I didn't die.

The results? I went from 217 pounds to 187. So this six foot tall guy approaching middle age dedicated himself to this boot camp and lost 30 pounds in three months. Not bad. And I remember feeling so motivated. I enjoyed going to business lunches and ordering a simple salad with no dressing, just oil and vinegar. I loved people telling me how great I looked.

Yeah, well, that lasted for about a year. Slowly but surely the needle on that damn scale kept creeping to the right, even when I tried to stand ever so lightly. Eventually the new clothes I bought for the new and slimmer me no longer fit. I was wearing the ones from the old and fatter me.

I got back into the gym earlier this year, and I workout two or three times a week. And it feels great. I can't say the pounds are melting away and I'm sure Josh would say it's because "Sam Crump's not drinking my shakes!" It's true. While my workouts may be preventing the needle from moving right, their not yet moving it left.

So my New Year's resolution is to work on the diet part of "diet & exercise". I will turn fifty at the end of this year and I'd really like to avoid that phenomenon that some men get around that age where you'd swear they are pregnant.